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Monday, January 24, 2011

One of the most common questions that gets asked by girls is, by far, "how do I tell if he likes me?" Now to begin with, i will say, there is a difference between telling if he likes you and knowing if he likes you. To know, you have to get an honest answer, and you can't be sure he will give you one. Why? Because is dishonest? No, there might be several reasons, maybe he is in front of ALL his tough football teammates and dosen't wanna look like Romeo, maybe he's had a REALLY rough day and is not feeling romantic at all. So that answer you get when you finally work up the nerve to ask him might not represent the truth. That does not mean, however, you should not ask him! It means that you should analyze the situation to gather clues about whether or not he does. All guys, with some rare exceptions, drop clues, and it is your job to analyze them. Remember, there are several classes in which girls fit into in a guys life. You must first determine into which class you fit. The classes are, in order of importance: (1) disliked- guys RARELY hate, so most often, if he treats you with disdain he dislikes you. Again, there are exceptions. (2) generalized- you're pretty much just anoher girl to him. That doesn't mean you will never have a chance with him. It just means as of right now he doesn't feel anything noteworthy about you. (2) minor acquaintance- you just met, maybe he would like to get to know you better, maybe he just wants to be your friend (3) friend- a good relationship. Let's go shoot hoops at the park, and talk about school. (4) close friend- now i can unload some of the junk and issues of my life since I can trust you (5) crush- that girl is really cute and a GREAT soprano in the school choir...wouldn't mind getting to know her...And so forth on to love. How do find out into which class you fit? Read my next post entitled "which class am I in?"

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