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Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Where do I fit into a guy's life? (the answer to the previous question, "What class of relationship do I fit under?")

So how do you determine where you fit into a guy's life? Well, it can be complicated. Guys are not always totally transparent, and like to retain a little bit of mystery. It is made less complicated, however, by the prescence of hints all guys, whether they know it or not, drop. The trick then, if you will, lies in reading those signs and analyzing both of your responses to each other and your relationship. With all the millions of variables present in human relationships, it is difficult to present a one-size-fits-all answer. You can however, look for generalities. (1) he will stare into your eyes. He at least finds you attractive, or perhaps is trying to psychanalyze you. Either way, he finds you interesting! (2) he tells his friends about you. Guys like support, and so are apt to tell their friends about the wonderful girl they just met. A word of warning, DO NOT APPROACH HIS FRIENDS AND ASK THEM! This will make you look desperate, which will be a major turn-off to him when he finds out. However, if they approach you and tell you, this is a good sign. His friends will have little incentive to lie to you about this, and guys rarely play matchmaker. (3) he flirts with you. Be warned, however, not every guy who flirts with you is interested in romance. If he flirts with you, he is interested, but in what he is interested in and to what degree is up for analysis. These three hints are general signs he is probably interested. As was previously stated, however, this analyis, "does he like me?" is best dealt with on a case-by-case basis. I would encourage you to comment with your thoughts, and share your story! If you are wondering about your own situation, this is where the fun of the analysis begins!

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